When I landed my first actual job after college, I thought the biggest challenge would be proving I belonged there. I never imagined the person who would make me dread going to work wasn\u2019t a coworker at all.<\/p>\n
The morning I walked into that little office on the third floor of a converted brick building, I honestly thought I\u2019d won the lottery. I was 22, fresh out of college, and it was my first real office job.<\/p>\n
I held my very first business card between my fingers as if it might disappear. The name on it was mine, right underneath the company Lisa had built from nothing. There were only two of us: Lisa, my boss, and me.<\/p>\n
She was maybe 35, sharp in that quiet way that made you sit up straighter without knowing why.<\/p>\n
On my first day, Lisa handed me a coffee and said, \u201cI hired you because you asked the right questions in the interview. Don\u2019t lose that.\u201d<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t know what to say, so I just nodded like an idiot.<\/p>\n
From day one, my boss believed in me in a way nobody ever had before. She let me sit in on client calls, corrected my emails without making me feel small, and once told me, \u201cCindy, I\u2019m not your manager. I\u2019m your mentor. There\u2019s a difference.\u201d<\/p>\n
I loved that job! I loved her! I would\u2019ve stayed late every night just to prove I deserved to be there.<\/p>\n
About three months in, her husband started stopping by.<\/p>\n
Mark was tall and had an easy smile. He was the kind of guy who shook your hand a little too long and remembered your coffee order after meeting you once.<\/p>\n
The first time Mark came in, he brought Lisa lunch and waved at me from the doorway. The second time, he asked how I was settling in. By the fourth or fifth visit, my boss was usually out at a client meeting when he showed up.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe said she\u2019d be back at three,\u201d he told me one afternoon, dropping into the chair across from my desk. \u201cMind if I wait?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOf course not,\u201d I said, because what else do you say to your boss\u2019s husband?<\/p>\n
Mark asked about my weekend, my apartment, and whether I liked going out on dates.<\/p>\n
I answered in short, polite sentences and kept typing, hoping he\u2019d take the hint.<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t. Instead, he leaned back and studied me as if I were a painting.
\nI laughed the way you laugh when you don\u2019t know what else to do, and I made an excuse about a deadline. He left 10 minutes later, but I felt uncomfortable for the rest of the afternoon.<\/p>\n
Then one evening, I was scrolling through my phone on the couch when a notification came in.<\/p>\n
It was from Facebook: a new friend request.<\/p>\n
Mark.<\/p>\n
A message sat right underneath it, already waiting.<\/p>\n
\u201cHope you don\u2019t mind my adding you.\u201d<\/p>\n
I stared at the screen until it went dark. Then I locked my phone, set it facedown on the cushion, and told myself I was overthinking. He was just being friendly. He was Lisa\u2019s husband, for God\u2019s sake.<\/p>\n
I picked the phone back up.<\/p>\n
I ignored the friend request and the message. I told myself he\u2019d get the hint and move on.<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
The second message landed on a Tuesday morning, just as I was pouring coffee.<\/p>\n
First came the compliment: \u201cYou have a beautiful smile.\u201d<\/p>\n
I stared at my phone as if it had bitten me. I locked the screen, shoved it in my drawer, and pretended I hadn\u2019t seen it.<\/p>\n
Two days later, another one.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo is there a lucky guy in the picture, or is Lisa keeping you too busy for a love life?\u201d<\/p>\n
My stomach twisted. I closed the app without opening the thread.<\/p>\n
Then came the one that made my hands go cold.<\/p>\n
\u201cDon\u2019t tell Lisa I messaged you. She\u2019d get the wrong idea.\u201d<\/p>\n
I read it three times. That single sentence told me everything I\u2019d been avoiding.<\/p>\n
I called my older sister, Rachel, that night from my car, still in the parking garage.<\/p>\n
\u201cYour boss\u2019s husband is asking about your dating life?\u201d she said. \u201cCindy, screenshot every single message as evidence.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t want to make it a thing.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt already is a thing! You just haven\u2019t decided what kind yet, and the last thing you want is a he-said-she-said situation where YOU lose your job.\u201d<\/p>\n
I saved the screenshots in a folder I labeled \u201cReceipts\u201d and then buried it three folders deep so I wouldn\u2019t have to look at it. I still didn\u2019t reply to Mark. I hoped, in the stupid way you hope when you\u2019re young, that silence would bore him into leaving me alone.<\/p>\n
It did the opposite.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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