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<\/p>\nA new parenting suggestion has ignited a fierce online debate, leaving many moms and dads both intrigued and bewildered. The idea comes from Australian sexuality educator Deanne Carson, who proposes that parents ask for their baby\u2019s consent before changing a diaper. While it may sound unusual, Carson clarifies that the goal isn\u2019t to get a verbal \u201cyes\u201d from an infant. Instead, she advocates for a practice rooted in building a \u201cculture of consent\u201d from the very beginning of life.<\/p>\n
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Carson explains that the method involves narrating your actions to the baby. A parent might say, \u201cI\u2019m going to change your diaper now, is that okay?\u201d and then pause to observe the child\u2019s body language. The core idea is to treat the child with respect and acknowledge their bodily autonomy, thereby laying a foundation for understanding consent as they grow older. Supporters of the concept see it as a natural extension of responsive parenting, where paying close attention to a child\u2019s coos, movements, and eye contact is key to healthy communication.<\/p>\n
However, the proposal has been met with significant criticism and even mockery online. Many critics have labeled the idea as impractical and disconnected from the realities of parenting. One social media user pointedly asked if the same logic should apply to getting \u201cconsent from your cat to change its litter tray.\u201d Others argued that a baby crying from the discomfort of a full diaper is signal enough, calling it a \u201cdemand\u201d for a change, not a situation requiring permission.<\/p>\n
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\n‘Sexuality expert’ says parents should ask for baby’s consent when changing nappies.<\/p>\n
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\u2014 Sunrise (@sunriseon7) May 10, 2018<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n